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Why Personality is key for Online Dating

There is a huge misconception when it comes to online dating and phone sex.

Some people think there is a difference in how you approach things.  This is not the case, in fact, there is little difference.  The only thing that changes is the means in which you make the connection. Obviously, one is on the computer while the other is via the phone.

However, just because you are hiding behind a phone does not mean that the person you are trying to connect with does not need or deserved to be seduced and treated as you would any other date.

Attractiveness Helps

Comment on how attractive you think the person is. Especially in the case of females! Women want to know that you think are pretty, even if they are online and you can’t see them.  In your communications say something like I can hear how pretty you are in your voice. Ask questions that would provide some clues to what they may look like. Do this in an unobtrusive way. How do you wear your hair? What color are your eyes? These are some good questions, to begin with.

Don’t be a jerk

I would like to think I do not have to explain this part, but you really have no idea how rude some people can be online. It is almost like being behind a computer screen or phone gives people the right to somehow say things they would never say in person.  Don’t do it.  If you would not say it in public or in person, then simply don’t say it.

Point out nice things the other person has talked about. Be upbeat, and try to find common interests. If you pick up on something that you think might interest the person, talk about that. Show manners and kindness at all times. Swearing, unkind remarks and abusive comments are never appreciated. 

Know your audience

If you are looking for fetish type activities then you should hang out where the fetishists hang out. It is highly unlikely that you will find someone into BDSM rope exchange on a model agency website.  Know what you are looking for in the person you want to date or engage in sexting with and find sites that service like minded people.

Online dating is not rocket science but it does take a little bit of research.  If you want no credit card options, then you have already done your research!

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